In this ever changing era of globalization, the needs of the people are crossing the sky limits. For fulfilling the combined as well as individual requirements and dreams of success, people are stepping out of their houses for their daily bread. Parents equipped with the high qualifications and with an aspiration of designing beautiful & affordable lives for their children tend towards working. When both of the parents are exiting the house in the early morning and entering late in the evening, it takes a severe toll on the relationship with their children. The emotional bond and amazing chemistry which is the basis of a healthy relationship get affected.
Let’s heed on the following implications which pop up between working parents and children and how to tackle these budding issues:
Unawareness of Child’s Likes or Dislikes
When both of the parents are working and spend most of their time of a day outside the house, it’s obvious if they are unaware or unknown to their child’s likings and disliking. How come they know about their ward’s little interests and disinterests? Or what pinch of achievement he or she has acquired on a daily basis. Parents come to discover about their daily routines from the caretakers or grandparents under whose shadow they leave their children for the whole day. And at the end of the day, they rejoice over their child’s daily synopsis and feel contented. Have you ever wondered that there is a huge difference between listening to a tale and being a part of it? Being the live audience of your child’s notoriousness is what you miss.
Insensitiveness towards the Child’s Desires
Having indulged whole day in the tiresome work of the office, parents require the necessary rest while their children need them. Being caught in the conditioned mindset and careless attitude, parents ignore their children’s plea. Due to this behavior, their children feel left out and ignored. Eventually what happens is that the child curbs his/her innate desires and never unfolds it in front of their guardians. In no time, these obstructions & negligence soon turn into disrespect and extremism that can become quite difficult to tackle.
A Void of Lesser Understanding Deepens
The hindrance bounded connections create an expanding void between the parents and their children. A widening space where feelings from both the sides get diluted and dissolved. Both the parents and children become impassive to their feelings and desires. A state arrives where children do not care to bother about their parent’s permission or consent. Nor the parents have enough time to consider this proliferating issue. The tightening bond between the parents and children falls into divisions and perilous conclusions.
Parents are the ones who have to take the initiatives to restore the integrity of this naturally pristine and strong relationship. They can assure their wards a qualitative and cheering time each day. Taking out on adventurous expeditions on every weekend and having a small chat can really help. Never forget a good parenting is the result of perseverance and having a discerning eye.