Amazing sex lies at the intersection of romance and passion.
Romance – an emotional state that happens when two people nurture and encourage acts and thoughts that cherish each other.
Passion – an emotional state that arises when a strong interest of desire, curiosity, and attraction.
Put these two emotions together and you have the opposite of impersonal sex: you have intimate trust.
Sex is rather simple: put the penis in the vagina, and move your hips.
Orgasms are the same. Engorgement, erection, lubrication, ecstasy. Cue deep moans.
The difficulty of sex comes from the communication. Partners are unlikely to get their sexual desires met if they’re uncomfortable discussing them in the first place.
When we can understand the way we desire and communicate our intimacy, the barriers that block a passionate sex life fall down, leaving a beautiful, erotic mess in between the bed sheets.
Three Must Do’s in a Relationship
You Must Understand and Chart Each Other’s Sexual Love Map:
There seems to be a striking difference in the way men and women see sex. Most women desire sex when they feel emotionally close, where as men use sex as a way of becoming emotionally close. The way in which we feel loved and rejected in sex may be different. By sharing how you experience love and rejection, you’ll begin to understand your partner more and your partner will understand you as well.
Any honest conversation you can have about sex will significantly improve your relationship both inside and outside of the bedroom.
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