It is pure bliss to reach the stage in a relationship, where you are entirely comfortable to be in their presence without having to speak. It marks a new level of comfort and security in the relationship.
Silence is golden, but one should always be curious about their partner. People are complex beings and, even after 20 or 30 years, you will never know all there is to know about the person you are with. Therefore, here are some fun questions which are sure to keep the conversation and laughs flowing.
- Which do you prefer, hugging or kissing?
This may seem like an innocuous or obvious question, but have you ever actually asked? The answer is not going to redefine your sex life but, it may be interesting to find out.
- Do you have a favorite sexual memory of us?
Here things get a bit steamy. In the name of research, the answer to this question may be enlightening. On the other hand, it is always fun to reminisce.
- When did you first realize that you wanted to kiss me?
Kissing is an extremely intimate act. It releases endorphins, and is thought to be part of the biological bonding process. Guaranteed, that most people will remember the first time they kissed their partner. The memory may still even give them butterflies and goosebumps.
- There are 2 types of people in this world, what are the two types?
A question such as this is purely for the sake of interest. The answer may even surprise you a bit.
- What sexual fantasies do you have?
Only recently has sex become a more frequently discussed topic. Our wants and desires are not something to be ashamed of. But, your partner may need a little bit of a nudge. Asking this question in a date setting may be the perfect time to take a step into recesses of your partner’s mind. And who knows, you might have some common ground here.
- What’s the best thing I’ve done for you on a special occasion?
Surprises and heartfelt gifts make your partner feel special, understood and appreciated. In a good relationship, anything done for the other person is probably lovingly appreciated. It is a good idea though to find out what they liked the most. At the very least, it will help you out the next time their birthday comes rolling along.
- How did you feel after your first sexual experience?
On the surface, this question is a fun one. But, the prevalence of sexual assault in today’s society is shocking. By asking your partner this question in a safe setting, once you have been together for a while, might give you both the opportunity to get to know each other better. If they have no sexual trauma, then that is wonderful. If they do though, be prepared to simply sit and listen. Having this conversation will benefit you both in the long run.
- What is your perfect day?
Again, the answer here may be enlightening. We can all name activities that our partners enjoy but can we really map out their perfect day?
- What is the wildest thing you have ever done?
This does not necessarily have to be a sexual question. If you have known your partner for a long time, then you probably already know the answer to this. But do you?
- What have been the three happiest moments of your life?
Maybe they include you, maybe they don’t. Either way, it is bound to be a fun trip down memory lane.