10 Kinky Sex Suggestions – How Many Will You Try?

Secret touches

Masturbating right next to your partner when they’re asleep borders on creepy, so the aim of the game here is to let him in on the fact this will be happening and you expect the same from him too…
Girl on the Net explains: “We’ve all been woken up with a gentle hand stroking us, and a pleading ‘can we do this?’ face that makes morning sex hard to resist. But for this dare your aim is to wake no one.
Take yourself back to your teenage days, and see if you can masturbate quickly and silently while in bed with your partner without waking them up.”
Now see what we mean? However, imaging your partner touching themselves = hot. And vice versa. So Girl on the Net says that this dare should be one of your easy go-tos when things get stale.
“Firstly because it’s fun, and masturbation’s healthy and good for you. Secondly because you masturbating subtly will be the only thing on your partner’s mind when they complete their side of the dare later on,” she says.

Be naked

First off, don’t freak out. Confidence is sexy, we all have bad bits but the beauty of being with someone who wants to er, do you is that they just don’t care about them as much as you do! So Girl on the Net says take off those Spanx and relax.

“Be naked – we see our partners naked a lot, but how often do we really look? Not much – both men and women have fears about their wobbly bits, their hairy bits, or the things that only they’re aware are ‘wrong’ about themselves.

“Dare yourselves to strip off and stay that way for longer than just a shag – walk naked around the kitchen, sit in the buff on the sofa while you’re watching a film. Touch each other. Look. (This tip is not recommended for those who live in either flat shares or greenhouses).”

Make a Video

If you and your partner are a fun-loving couple with an exciting sex life, then you may have toyed around with the idea of making a sex tape. Making a sex tape can be a fun way to take your intimacy to new heights.

Watching you and your partner having sex can give your sex life an added boost and make sex much more thrilling. However, you need to have low expectations and a sense of humor!

Don’t have sex

Voluntary celibacy to improve your sex life? Don’t worry, we’ve not gone mad, Girl on the Net suggests that not being able to have your partner will just make you both want it even more…

“This doesn’t sound like a particularly sexy tip, does it? But trust me, it’s awesome. The fact that you can’t have it means it’s constantly on your mind.”

But don’t worry, just because you can’t actually have sex doesn’t mean you can’t go in for a bit of hot and heavy and the odd tension building grope.

“Touching him, holding him, squeezing him when he gets hard (I didn’t say you couldn’t do that), all of these things combine to make the sex you have at the end of the week more potent, visceral and desperate. And what could be lovelier?”, she says.

We’re sold.