Disclaimer – This isn’t the Disney school of romance, this is what she really wants and will get her hot… I’m just letting you know so you can be prepared because you probably haven’t heard this stuff before and it may not be what you think your going to hear
Before the practical tips you can use tonight, I just want to tell you something to get you in the right shape of mind
Ready, because it is going to change the way you think about sex…?
As a man, part of the enjoyment we feel falls under relief, another part falls under watching the woman we are with be happy and enjoy the experience
But for a woman, sex is all about her.
If she has met a man who can meet her needs and who she can really let go she is in heaven
Women can have 4 types of orgasms vs a man who generally just wants one
And in a competition of who is the loudest, women will always win. Why? The pleasure level for them is a lot greater
Why am I telling you all this…?
Because women are the ones who should want sex from you more often, not the other way around
If you are finding your wife hard to seduce/hard to get into bed, then your going about it the wrong way
The good news is that when you start seducing your wife well, and giving her that story that she wants and craves around going to bed with you then she will start playing along and seducing you
The best way to seduce your wife is to broaden your foreplay skills
(Foreplay as in the time before sex where you are getting yourselves interested in sex)
I tend to call it foreplay rather than seduction because foreplay is apart of sex, and seduction doesn’t necessarily even invovle sex
Foreplay isn’t a new concept I know that you have heard it 500 times, but lets learn how you can use it to get her in the mood from a time where she may not be
What she wants in foreplay
Lets start with what she wants first, so you can give it to her and reap the rewards…
- Last more than 1 minute – ideally it should last for a few hours
- It is special and involves just you two
- It gets her excited at the anticipation of what will happen
More on next page…